Using AI Tools in Glad We Talked® Programs – Human-led, Safety-first, and Here to Support You
Some Glad We Talked® tools are AI-assisted—human-led, safety-first. Learn what “AI-driven” means and the top 10 ways to stay steady, private, and safe.
Why I Create Playful Therapeutic Resources (Even When Some Call Them “Childish”)
I often create therapeutic creative resources that look playful. They use simple metaphors.Gentle illustrations. At times they are interactiveSometimes even squished, squashed sandwiches. And every so often, someone asks – kindly or otherwise –“But isn’t this a bit childish?” I want to speak to that. Not to defend myself, but to name something I’ve learned […]
Hypoarousal Signs: Shutdown, Freeze, Numbness + What Helps (Adults, Kids, Parents)
Hypoarousal Signs: Shutdown, Freeze, Numbness – What to Do First (Adults + Parents) Hypoarousal is what happens when your nervous system drops into “too little, shut down.” It’s the bottom slice of The Sandwich of Capacity™: metaphor. Immobilised energy that reduces output – fewer words, less movement, less connection, less access to “thinking clearly.” Hypoarousal […]
Is Sensory Overload Hyperarousal? Window of Tolerance + The Sandwich of Capacity™
Is Sensory Overload Hyperarousal? (And Why It Can Flip Into Shutdown) If you’re neurodivergent, you might know sensory overload as that moment when sound is too sharp, light is too bright, clothing feels unbearable, and your brain can’t “filter” anything anymore. Sometimes it looks like panic, irritability, urgency, or rage. Other times it looks like […]
Burnout Prevention: How to Spot Early Signs and Protect Your Capacity (Sandwich of Capacity™)
Burnout Prevention: Protect Your Capacity Before You Hit the Wall Burnout rarely arrives suddenly. More often, it’s a slow narrowing of capacity: You recover more slowly Small tasks feel heavy Sensory tolerance drops Irritability rises You start living in survival mode (hyperarousal or shutdown) Burnout prevention works best when you treat it as a […]
Stressors That Squeeze Capacity: Hidden Load + The Sandwich of Capacity™ (Adults, Kids, Parents)
Stressors That Squeeze Capacity: How to Spot Hidden Load (Adults + Parents) Sometimes you can handle a lot. And sometimes one more email, one more request, one more noise, one more “can you just…” sends you over the edge. That doesn’t mean you’re unpredictable. It often means your capacity was already squeezed by hidden load-stressors […]
How to Widen Your Window of Tolerance: Supports That Actually Work (Adults, Kids, Parents)
How to Widen Your Window of Tolerance: Supports That Actually Work focuses on widening capacity by reducing load and increasing nervous system support over time. A wider window of tolerance doesn’t mean you never get overwhelmed. It means: you notice earlier you recover faster you can stay connected to yourself and others more often your […]
Mask All Day, Crash Later: Neurodivergent Capacity, Burnout + The Sandwich of Capacity™
Mask All Day, Crash Later: Capacity, Masking Fatigue, and Neurodivergent Burnout (What Helps) If you’re neurodivergent, you might recognise a familiar rhythm: You show up, perform, cope, smile, respond “normally,” keep pace. You hold it together through work, school, meetings, family, or social time. Then you get home and collapse – irritable, tearful, numb, foggy, […]
The Sandwich of Capacity™ in Schools: Window of Tolerance for Teachers, PSHE, and Regulation
The Sandwich of Capacity™ in Schools A Window of Tolerance Framework for Teachers, PSHE, and Regulation In schools, we often talk about behaviour as if it’s a choice made in a vacuum. But many classroom “behaviour problems” are actually capacity problems. When a student’s nervous system is squeezed past their window of tolerance, access drops: […]
Hyperarousal Signs: Anxiety, Rage, Overwhelm + What Helps (Adults, Kids, Parents)
Hyperarousal Signs: Anxiety, Urgency, Rage, Overwhelm – What to Do First (Adults + Parents) Hyperarousal is what happens when your nervous system moves into “too much, too fast.” It’s the top slice of The Sandwich of Capacity™: mobilised energy that wants action-fix it, escape it, control it, or end it. This is why hyperarousal can […]